Delegasi Dato Eddy dan Admin Pernomboran ke program berkaitan industri MLM di Sunway Pyramid pada 7 November 2015 lalu.
Tahun 2016 adalah pola 2-7 iaitu berkaitan "networking"...industri perniagaan berkaitan networking berpotensi cerah.
Jika anda atau organisasi anda memerlukan strategi sales/ marketing / networking secara kaedah pernomboran seperti arah yang betul, teknik memilih killer produk yang sesuai, teknik hari menjual yang sesuai dsbnya, sila hubungi kami untuk kelas/ coaching/ consultation.
Tahun 2016 adalah pola 2-7 iaitu berkaitan "networking"...industri perniagaan berkaitan networking berpotensi cerah.
Jika anda atau organisasi anda memerlukan strategi sales/ marketing / networking secara kaedah pernomboran seperti arah yang betul, teknik memilih killer produk yang sesuai, teknik hari menjual yang sesuai dsbnya, sila hubungi kami untuk kelas/ coaching/ consultation.
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Bertemu dan mendapatkan perkongsian pengetahuan tentang network marketing daripada individu yang terbukti berjaya. Dikatakan pernah menghasilkan jualan sebanyak RM16 juta sebelum ini, kini bersama produk Zrii. Taip Shahkhan dalam Youtube untuk melihat video kejayaan beliau.
Maklumat lanjut tentang produk dan perniagaan Zrii di sini - http://eddy769.myzriipro.com
Maklumat lanjut tentang produk dan perniagaan Zrii di sini - http://eddy769.myzriipro.com
Tidak dapat lari dari perihal masalah mistik.. lagipun dunia metafizik tentu sekali berkait dengan mistik. Pengalaman kami dalam mencari teknik dan strategi pemulihan misteri mistik mendapati 3 individu yang banyak membantu kami dalam menyelesaikan masalah mistik - di Batu Pahat dan Muar. Kaedah mereka adalah "non-invasive approach" iaitu kaedah "santai" tidak memerlukan pesakit berbaring, menyentuh pesakit, menyakiti pesakit dengan kayu, tidak menggunakan kemenyan dsbnya. Banyak perawat mistik yang kami temui selama ini dalam pencarian kami menggunakan kaedah yang agak brutal tetapi cara kami adalah strategi "ketenangan" iaitu mistik dikuasai apabila pesakit menjana dan berada dalam energi ketenangan yang tinggi. Jom, kami bawa anda bertemu dengan mereka dalam satu sesi istimewa.
Everything You Think You Know About Happiness Is Wrong
For many of us, happiness is the ultimate goal in life, worth pursuing above all else. If you’d asked me a few months ago, I would have agreed. But recently, I’ve been thinking about the kinds of mistakes we make when pursuing happiness. I’ve been wondering whether the biggest mistake might be seeing happiness as something we should be aiming for at all.
Mistake 1: Not thinking about what happiness means
For all the focus we devote to happiness, we rarely spell out what it means. In fact, there are multiple ways we might interpret “happiness.”
One important distinction is between intense, short-term forms of happiness—excitement, euphoria—and less intense, but perhaps more stable, feelings of calmness and contentment. Receiving a compliment from someone you really like might feel fantastic for a few hours, but it’s likely to dissipate in a day or so.
By contrast, feeling like you having meaningful and supportive relationships in your life can give you a lower, but much more consistent, happiness boost. In an interesting paper in the Journal of Consumer Research, researchers distinguished between two different kinds of happiness—calm and excitement—and found that they were experienced differently depending on the time frame the person was thinking in. When we’re focused on the present, we’re more likely to feel happiness in the form of calmness; when we’re focused on the future, we’re more likely to feel excitement.
It’s not that some forms of happiness are necessarily better than others—they’re different, and pursuing them means different things. In The Happiness Myth, Jennifer Hecht points out that different kinds of happiness are rarely in harmony with one another. Going after intense, positive experiences in the moment might lead us to neglect the things that lead to longer-term life satisfaction—neglecting old friends in favor of exciting new acquaintances or skipping a day of work to go to the movies.
So if we want to be “happy,” we need to think carefully about the kind of happiness we’re aiming for and what tradeoffs we’re willing to make. If we don’t do this, pursuing “happiness” as a broad goal could mean you end up going after the wrong things.
Mistake 2: Looking for happiness in the wrong places
There are many things in life that give us an intense, short-term boost of happiness: getting a promotion, buying a new car or piece of clothing, or receiving a compliment. When we experience that boost, we naturally want more of whatever caused it—intense positive emotions are strongly reinforcing. Because the feedback is much more immediate and intense, strong emotions can be much more reinforcing than sustained, but less intense, positive emotions we get from a satisfying period of hard work, or a relationship with someone we’ve known for a long time. We might be naturally motivated to seek out things that bring us more intense forms of happiness. This is fine, of course, if you’ve reflected and decided that’s a tradeoff you want to make. But for most people, I imagine that’s not the case.
It’s also natural to feel your happiness depends a lot on how certain key aspects of your life are going: how much you enjoy your career, and whether you have close, meaningful relationships. But this could be more dangerous than it seems. Research in psychology suggests that we tend to overestimate the long-term impact (pdf) of even the biggest life changes on our happiness. We’re surprisingly good at adapting to new things—good and bad—and returning to a baseline level of happiness. This doesn’t mean you won’t be happier with your life if you’re in a job you find fulfilling than if you dread going to work every day.
But it does mean we should be careful not to put too much of our hope for happiness in “finding the perfect job/relationship.” Even if we do find these things, we’ll inevitably find more things to be dissatisfied about. The unfortunate nature of happiness, it seems, is that it’s like a treadmill: there’s always more ground to cover.
Mistake 3: Wishing things were different
Have you ever been in a meeting at work, desperately wishing you were somewhere else? Or wished you looked slightly different or lived somewhere else or that a skill you struggled with came more easily to you?
Pursuing happiness can backfire when we start wanting to change things that aren’t within our control. It’s easy to think of ways in which we’d be happier if things were different, which is precisely why we’re never totally satisfied. Ultimately, the things we think our happiness depends on aren’t totally within our control. We can’t control whether we get our dream job or not. We can’t control what other people think of us. We can’t control the weather. We can influence some of these things with our actions, but sometimes things don’t go our way and there’s nothing we could have done differently.
Wanting to change things that aren’t within your control is perhaps the best way to live a life filled with frustration and dissatisfaction. Unfortunately, it can be the very pursuit of happiness that often leads people to this state of frustration with how things currently are.
Mistake 4: Thinking we should be happy all the time
Because there are so many things influencing our happiness that aren’t in our control, it’s impossible to be happy all the time. Bad things are going to happen to you over the course of your life. Someone you love will get sick and die. You’ll have days where getting through everything you have on your plate feels like an impossible struggle. You’ll experience your fair share of negative emotions, and that’s OK. Fighting those negative emotions when they’re appropriate—telling yourself you shouldn’t be sad when something sad has happened, or beating yourself up for feeling stressed when you’ve got two hours to do two weeks’ worth of work—will only make things worse.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that happiness should always be the goal. But sometimes happiness really isn’t the most useful emotion to be feeling. Sometimes we can’t be euphoric, no matter how hard we try, and trying only makes things worse. Sometimes it’s OK not to be happy.
Mistake 5: Pursuing happiness at all?
Rather than asking, “How can I be happy?” I think we’d be better off asking:
What do I ultimately care about and want to achieve in life?
What kind of person do I want to be?
Then think about how to achieve these goals. When I asked myself the first question, I realized I care most about two things: making the world a better place while doing fulfilling work, and having close and meaningful relationships with other people. Asking the second question, I came up with a list of character traits and attitudes I want to cultivate: compassion, open-mindedness, gratitude, and curiosity. Unlike “being happy,” these are more specific, actionable, and within my control.
Ironically, these are exactly the kinds of things that researchers would advise you focus on if you want to be happy: finding satisfying work and meaningful relationships, doing things for others, appreciating the good things in your life. The difference is that I’m not suggesting we should do these things because they’re going to make us happy. We should consider what we really care about and who we want to be, and let that guide our choices and actions. Happiness isn’t a goal, it’s a signal that we’re living life well and in accordance with what we care about. But it’s a noisy signal, and sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s producing it. We have to be careful to not get so caught up in chasing the signal that we lose sight of what it’s really trying to tell us.
For many of us, happiness is the ultimate goal in life, worth pursuing above all else. If you’d asked me a few months ago, I would have agreed. But recently, I’ve been thinking about the kinds of mistakes we make when pursuing happiness. I’ve been wondering whether the biggest mistake might be seeing happiness as something we should be aiming for at all.
Mistake 1: Not thinking about what happiness means
For all the focus we devote to happiness, we rarely spell out what it means. In fact, there are multiple ways we might interpret “happiness.”
One important distinction is between intense, short-term forms of happiness—excitement, euphoria—and less intense, but perhaps more stable, feelings of calmness and contentment. Receiving a compliment from someone you really like might feel fantastic for a few hours, but it’s likely to dissipate in a day or so.
By contrast, feeling like you having meaningful and supportive relationships in your life can give you a lower, but much more consistent, happiness boost. In an interesting paper in the Journal of Consumer Research, researchers distinguished between two different kinds of happiness—calm and excitement—and found that they were experienced differently depending on the time frame the person was thinking in. When we’re focused on the present, we’re more likely to feel happiness in the form of calmness; when we’re focused on the future, we’re more likely to feel excitement.
It’s not that some forms of happiness are necessarily better than others—they’re different, and pursuing them means different things. In The Happiness Myth, Jennifer Hecht points out that different kinds of happiness are rarely in harmony with one another. Going after intense, positive experiences in the moment might lead us to neglect the things that lead to longer-term life satisfaction—neglecting old friends in favor of exciting new acquaintances or skipping a day of work to go to the movies.
So if we want to be “happy,” we need to think carefully about the kind of happiness we’re aiming for and what tradeoffs we’re willing to make. If we don’t do this, pursuing “happiness” as a broad goal could mean you end up going after the wrong things.
Mistake 2: Looking for happiness in the wrong places
There are many things in life that give us an intense, short-term boost of happiness: getting a promotion, buying a new car or piece of clothing, or receiving a compliment. When we experience that boost, we naturally want more of whatever caused it—intense positive emotions are strongly reinforcing. Because the feedback is much more immediate and intense, strong emotions can be much more reinforcing than sustained, but less intense, positive emotions we get from a satisfying period of hard work, or a relationship with someone we’ve known for a long time. We might be naturally motivated to seek out things that bring us more intense forms of happiness. This is fine, of course, if you’ve reflected and decided that’s a tradeoff you want to make. But for most people, I imagine that’s not the case.
It’s also natural to feel your happiness depends a lot on how certain key aspects of your life are going: how much you enjoy your career, and whether you have close, meaningful relationships. But this could be more dangerous than it seems. Research in psychology suggests that we tend to overestimate the long-term impact (pdf) of even the biggest life changes on our happiness. We’re surprisingly good at adapting to new things—good and bad—and returning to a baseline level of happiness. This doesn’t mean you won’t be happier with your life if you’re in a job you find fulfilling than if you dread going to work every day.
But it does mean we should be careful not to put too much of our hope for happiness in “finding the perfect job/relationship.” Even if we do find these things, we’ll inevitably find more things to be dissatisfied about. The unfortunate nature of happiness, it seems, is that it’s like a treadmill: there’s always more ground to cover.
Mistake 3: Wishing things were different
Have you ever been in a meeting at work, desperately wishing you were somewhere else? Or wished you looked slightly different or lived somewhere else or that a skill you struggled with came more easily to you?
Pursuing happiness can backfire when we start wanting to change things that aren’t within our control. It’s easy to think of ways in which we’d be happier if things were different, which is precisely why we’re never totally satisfied. Ultimately, the things we think our happiness depends on aren’t totally within our control. We can’t control whether we get our dream job or not. We can’t control what other people think of us. We can’t control the weather. We can influence some of these things with our actions, but sometimes things don’t go our way and there’s nothing we could have done differently.
Wanting to change things that aren’t within your control is perhaps the best way to live a life filled with frustration and dissatisfaction. Unfortunately, it can be the very pursuit of happiness that often leads people to this state of frustration with how things currently are.
Mistake 4: Thinking we should be happy all the time
Because there are so many things influencing our happiness that aren’t in our control, it’s impossible to be happy all the time. Bad things are going to happen to you over the course of your life. Someone you love will get sick and die. You’ll have days where getting through everything you have on your plate feels like an impossible struggle. You’ll experience your fair share of negative emotions, and that’s OK. Fighting those negative emotions when they’re appropriate—telling yourself you shouldn’t be sad when something sad has happened, or beating yourself up for feeling stressed when you’ve got two hours to do two weeks’ worth of work—will only make things worse.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that happiness should always be the goal. But sometimes happiness really isn’t the most useful emotion to be feeling. Sometimes we can’t be euphoric, no matter how hard we try, and trying only makes things worse. Sometimes it’s OK not to be happy.
Mistake 5: Pursuing happiness at all?
Rather than asking, “How can I be happy?” I think we’d be better off asking:
What do I ultimately care about and want to achieve in life?
What kind of person do I want to be?
Then think about how to achieve these goals. When I asked myself the first question, I realized I care most about two things: making the world a better place while doing fulfilling work, and having close and meaningful relationships with other people. Asking the second question, I came up with a list of character traits and attitudes I want to cultivate: compassion, open-mindedness, gratitude, and curiosity. Unlike “being happy,” these are more specific, actionable, and within my control.
Ironically, these are exactly the kinds of things that researchers would advise you focus on if you want to be happy: finding satisfying work and meaningful relationships, doing things for others, appreciating the good things in your life. The difference is that I’m not suggesting we should do these things because they’re going to make us happy. We should consider what we really care about and who we want to be, and let that guide our choices and actions. Happiness isn’t a goal, it’s a signal that we’re living life well and in accordance with what we care about. But it’s a noisy signal, and sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s producing it. We have to be careful to not get so caught up in chasing the signal that we lose sight of what it’s really trying to tell us.
Bersempena berkat hari Jumaat 20 Nov 2015 dengan pola tarikh yang baik, kita ikhtiarkan guna energi daripada alam ciptaan Nya bagi ikhtiar berdoa/ rawatan energi. Bukan sahaja untuk rezeki tetapi juga bagi kesihatan spiritual juga.
 Program berdoa meliputi doa, tahlil, selawat dan zikir2 serta solat hajat di Padang Tok Syeikh.. menariknya ada garisan saf mengadap kiblat di atas batu-batu hamparan tersebut. Sebelum itu bersihkan badan mandi dan ambil wuduk di Telaga Tok Syekh dulu. |  |
Program Ikhtiar Berdoa / Rawatan Energi - LANGSUNG DARI MADINAH / MAKKAH
Insyallah, akan berangkat ke sana 9 Disember - 19 Disember, buat kali keempat. Kali ketiga sebelum ini pada Febuari 2015 lalu.
Tentunya aktiviti berdoa/ energi dari tempat yang sangat berkat. Jom ikuti program secara jarak jauh sebagai satu ikhtiar.
Foto sebelah adalah pembelian Al-Quran untuk Masjid Nabawi, Madinah. Kali ini, naskah Al-Quran yang dibeli adalah versi Madinah (versi murah RM50) tidak lagi versi biasa (RM30). Al-Quran yang diwakafkan diletakkan dalam masjid untuk kegunaan para jemaah. Ada orang bercerita Al-Quran wakaf juga diagihkan ke masjid-masjid lain... yang penting kita sudah membuat satu aktiviti yang baik.
Jika mahu buat sumbangan bagi pihak arwah, gunakan kod MDA (RM50).
Insyallah, akan berangkat ke sana 9 Disember - 19 Disember, buat kali keempat. Kali ketiga sebelum ini pada Febuari 2015 lalu.
Tentunya aktiviti berdoa/ energi dari tempat yang sangat berkat. Jom ikuti program secara jarak jauh sebagai satu ikhtiar.
Foto sebelah adalah pembelian Al-Quran untuk Masjid Nabawi, Madinah. Kali ini, naskah Al-Quran yang dibeli adalah versi Madinah (versi murah RM50) tidak lagi versi biasa (RM30). Al-Quran yang diwakafkan diletakkan dalam masjid untuk kegunaan para jemaah. Ada orang bercerita Al-Quran wakaf juga diagihkan ke masjid-masjid lain... yang penting kita sudah membuat satu aktiviti yang baik.
Jika mahu buat sumbangan bagi pihak arwah, gunakan kod MDA (RM50).
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Tentunya pengalaman berdoa di depan Kaabah.. pada Febuari 2015 lalu kebetulan pada hari Jumaat sebelum solat Jumaat di sana. Fenomena awan menutup matahari tiap kali waktu berdoa selalu terjadi dan bila terjadi semasa di Masjidil Haram, ianya sesuatu yang sangat mengharukan... Tuhan Maha Mendengar doa setiap insan... berdoalah tidak kira masa... yang penting teruskan positif.
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